Sure, I know where and how I like to be touched but all men are a little different. And just like I can't tickle myself, I get a completely different wonderful sensation when my wife strokes me than when I stroke myself.
I mean, if you want to give a guy such intense pleasure that he'll be ADDICTED TO YOU AND YOUR HANDS, then I couldn't just slap something together.
He just couldn't get it out of his mind. He admitted that he'd kept going back to this lady because he was "addicted to her hand jobs". He felt so incredibly guilty for cheating on his wife and that is why he invited me out for coffee. I asked him why he didn't ask his wife to give him genital massages that he found so incredibly intense.
Matt told me that prior to his wife he had a number of sexual partners. He had received a number of "pretty good" blow jobs and some rather intense lovemaking sessions over the years but nothing compared to the erotic pleasures he felt with his genitals in the hands of the masseuse.
Then he asked me a personal favor. He asked if I would put a guide together that he could give to his wife. One that was clear yet explicit on how to give guys heavenly genital massages. He said his wife would trust me since I've been on Oprah and all those other talk shows and have written about sex and lovemaking for years.
I thought I could whip out a guide in one night. But the more I thought about it and researched I realized that giving an amazing hand job is not a simple thing.
He said that he knows what feels good, he just has a hard time communicating it in the bedroom. He said she did stroke him but it wasn't anything special and actually at times it was not pleasurable at all.